Birthdays and Parties.

Today would have been my mother’s birthday. Having lost her earlier this year, I wasn’t sure how I would react. It was strange not to have bought a present and a card, although I still wished her a Happy Birthday.

I stayed up until midnight to do so.

At noon, our family enjoyed a lovely lunch at the place Mum and I used to go, then we strolled on the hot sand, where the children played on the swinging boats and bounced on the trampolines, and finally, to wrap up the day, we visited a local dairy farm where the best ice cream is produced. I had honeycomb. I recall Mum had that when we were last there. Then as now, the weather was beautiful.

I suspect my mother had something to do with that.

Mum was extremely supportive of my writing efforts and was pleased I had found a nuturing and friendly group within which to learn the craft. Something she was happy for me to do was attend the RNA Conference in Penrith.

The Romantic Novelists’ Association Conference 2012 was my first.

I joined six of my fellow Romaniacs, and met writers with whom I’ve previously interacted via the internet or with whom I had become acquainted at one of the RNA parties. The Conference was sociable, friendly and fun, with a great kitchen party on the Friday night.  I’m pleased to say singing was involved.

Study was involved too, with trade panels and workshops on all nature of writerly things, and I made two pitches to top editors. Once home, it took three days to absorb everything that had happened. Now I realise I have to get my head down and finish book two.  Oh. And find an agent.

That will be down to me.

Laura x

Laura

Thank you, Jane. It was a good day and it came at the end of a great week. It’s all in the timing.
The sun always shines on my mum’s birthday 🙂 x

Liv

The first anniversary/birthday etc. is always the hardest, but they will never pass without making us remember – which isn’t a bad thing. Glad you have such lovely memories of your mum, Laura.

Rebecca Leith

So, sorry, Laura. But it sounds as if you spent the day remembering your mother as she would have enjoyed the day. I know birthdays are tough. I always remember my dad on his, with a mixture of happy and sad memories. Happy ‘cos he was such a wonderful man; sad ‘cos I wish he hadn’t died before his time.
My heart goes out to you, and my thoughts are with you. And I very much regret the word I played on WWF before I read your post.
Much love and many hugs.

Laura

I appreciate the sentiment, Rebecca, but don’t fret 🙂 Today has been a good day – no tears and lots of happy memories.
Now, I’ve a game to win…;-) xx

Jan Brigden

Lovely, heartfelt post, Laura. A fitting tribute to your Mum. She must have the proudest, widest grin on her face looking down on you. I’m so pleased you were able to spend the day doing such fun things, surrounded by the people you love. That honeycomb ice cream sounds delicious 😉 Lots of love, Jan x x

Laura

Thank you, Jan. The ice cream was delicious and I shall take you there. 🙂
Wouldn’t advise coming right now – the town has Olympic fever with Portland hosting the sailing events.
Laura xx

Sue Fortin

Just caught up with this Laura as I’ve been away (which of course you know). So glad you found a lovely way to celebrate your Mum’s birthday.

And your singing was as good as mine is bad, which means you have a fab voice :0)

Sue
x

Laura

Welcome back, Sue 🙂
July 22nd was a beautiful day, but that was a given. My mum would say, ‘The sun always shines on my birthday.’ And it did.
Every year.
Thank you for your lovely compliment about the singing. It was a great party.
Laura x

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